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CORRECT Over-functioning (cont)
BTW : A fully ‘differentiated’ person separates out Self’ from Other and Thoughts from Feelings (emotions), so they can have thoughts about their feelings & feelings about their thoughts. They don’t get caught up in over-doing as a life-pattern.
They’re able to respond to life based on all the information available to them instead of ignoring what’s uncomfortable or painful. They have healthy boundaries between Self & an Other, making their relationships (with the right people) rich & satisfying.
4. 🚦Cultivate Healthy Habits
Physical well-being is closely tied to mental & emotional balance. Be sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating a nutritious diet, & incorporating regular exercise into your routine. These habits contribute to overall resilience & can help prevent burnout.
Physical movement is one of the most effective stress relievers , benefitting physical health & mental health. It boosts mood, which improves your outlook throughout the day & week. Do low-intensity activities like walking or yoga to promote blood flow without adding stress.
Also, add deep breathing once an hour for a few minutes, or simply taking a moment to appreciate the present – which can help you stay grounded & listen to your body.
BTW : A 2024 study revealed that a typical one-liter bottle of water sold in the US contains an alarming average of 240,000 plastic fragments, with 90% tiny enough to enter the human bloodstream. These “nanoplastics,” under 1 micrometer in length, pose a greater health threat than previously thought, capable of penetrating cells, entering the bloodstream, & impacting organs.
📌 Although the study does not have usage recommendations, it seems obvious that it’s wise to only use glass containers, as much as possible. Suggestions :
1. Depending where you live, start drinking more tap water or consider investing in home water filtration systems to reduce reliance on bottled water. This can minimize exposure to plastic particles.
2. Eat or drink from non-plastic surfaces. When possible, only use glasses, cups, plates… made from material like glass, ceramic, paper, or metal.
5. Prioritize
‼️ For those of us who are addicted to over-doing – and honesty want to change the pattern ——> use work suggestions & protocols in everyday experiences, as if you were working for a company who expected you to fulfill your job description ! Self- motivation : learn to be a balanced mate, a healthy parent, friend, neighbor…..
Start by identifying your priorities. What matters most to you? Is it work over relationships? Is it accumulating things / money or artistic projects, being active or quietly thinking, around other or more private…. This can change day-to-day when necessary, or during different life stages or stressors (married, retired, serious illness, major loss)
If you benefit from making lists, practice the following for a week. See if that helps your Inner Adult to set DO-ing boundaries more easily / automatically. Prioritize tasks using tools like to-do lists or digital planners, & allocate specific times to focus on each task in order to maintain concentration & take regular breaks.
When AT HOME : every evening writing down 5 things you want to accomplish (do) the next day (other than the routine activities like meals, school runs, shopping, classes…. ). Don’t spend more than 5-10 min. on it.
Each morning, briefly review the list & decide if you agree with it. Change if necessary, & then quickly list how to do each one : make calls, answer emails or other do writing, go to an appointment, pay a one-time bill….
Focus first on tasks that are critical & time-sensitive, while scheduling less critical actions for later in the day or week when you anticipate having more time.
Assess, evaluate & adjust your priorities, commitments & activities at the end of each day or week to identify any new tasks or changes in importance. You want to be sure that high-priority tasks get the attention they need, preventing last-minute rushes, & reducing work stress.
If you start feeling overwhelmed, consider whether certain tasks or obligations can be delegated or postponed. Be willing to adjust your plans to better align with your current circumstances & well-being.
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