I’M ALWAYS ANXIOUS
when I  have to travel

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BOOK: “Neurosis & Treatment: A Holistic Theory. – A. Angyal

 

2. NEUROSES (cont.)

Neurotic Disorders
• Agoraphobia w/ panic – believing some environment to be unsafe with no easy or possible escape, so needing to stay hidden indoors
 • Conversion (hysteria) – very distressing neurological symptoms (numbness, blindness, paralysis, fits) without a well-established organic cause, traced back to a psychological trigger
• Depersonalization – feeling disconnected or estranged from one’s Self – as an outside observer of ones thoughts or actions

• Dissociative (DDNOS) – chronic & recurrent identity disturbance due to prolonged & intense brainwashing (coercive persuasion) – which disrupts normal functioning of consciousness, memory or perception of the environment
• Generalized anxiety (GAD) – the “worry cycle”, being concerned about getting through the day, but with no apparent or current problem

• Hypochondriasis – excessive worry about having a serious illness, despite the absence of any actual medical diagnosis / proof
• Neurasthenia (from stress &/or isolation) – a mechanical weakness of the nerves, with symptoms of anxiety, depressed mood, fatigue, headache, heart palpitations, high blood pressure & neuralgia

• Neurotic Depression – same mental & physical problems as depression, with less severe but longer-lasting symptoms
• Obsessive-compulsive – the need to repeatedly check things, perform certain routines (“rituals”), or having recurring unwanted thoughts, which control behavior
• Phobic state – an irrational fear of a place or situation that makes one feel powerless & out of control (no choice)
• Panic (without agoraphobia) – sudden periods of intense fear that may include palpitations, sweating, shaking, shortness of breath, numbness, or a feeling that something really bad is going to happen

• Post-Traumatic – caused by experiencing a single or prolonged traumatic events, & includes physical flashbacks, nightmares, & intrusive memories
• Social anxiety – significant amount of fear in one or more social situations, causing considerable distress & impaired ability to function in at least some parts of daily life
• Somatization – multiple clinically significant repeated physical complaints, representing emotional pain

A Different Perspective (non-traditional, non-medical)
a.  Students of the Enneagram start with each Type’s distortion or flaw, seen as a positive characteristic which has been bent away from True Center – because of wounding experiences. This is similar to the ancient Greek notion of sin or fault as hamartia = ‘missing the mark’. If you aim at a target with a bent gun barrel or crooked arrow, you’ll miss the target.

Starting in childhood, when we need the most nurturing & encouragement, our vulnerability can  turn our innate strengths into weaknesses, but ONLY —
— IF our values are attacked, discounted, made fun of or in any way violated, so we feel threatened & scared
— IF our strengths are challenged, distrusted, dismissed or questioned, so we can become anxious, guilty, ashamed & angry

Inner Child work is about uncovering & healing the wounds / vulnerabilities created when growing up. It’s discovering where our Healthy IC is, & where the WIC is hiding, how, where & from what, and what it really needs. By knowing our specific sensitivities, our EnneaType can be used as a guide to growth. (MORE….)
FLAW                                                    GIFT
#1 – Criticism /Resentment         == Serene / Good
#2 – Pride / Flattery                      == Humble / Loving
#3 – Deceit / Vanity                      == Authentic / Effective
#4 – Envy / Moody                        == Emotionally balanced,  Creative
#5 – Avarice / Stingy                     ==  Unattached / Wise
#6 – Fear / Cowardice                   == Courageous /Loyal
#7 – Gluttony / Avoidance           == Sober / Joyful
#8 – Lust  / Vengeance                 == Subtle / Protective
#9 – Sloth  / Withdrawal              == Engaged / Peaceful

(MORE ….  ➕ what each EnneaType really wants)
BOOK: “The Positive Enneagram“, Susan Rhodes

b. SIMILARLY – Andras Angyal (1965), a neo-psychoanalytic therapist, wrote:  “The real traumatizing factors are those which prevent the person from expressing these basic tendencies. In neurotic development there are always a number of unfortunate circumstances which instill a self-derogatory feeling in the child ……”  (MORE – excellent)
However –
✳️ “The person’s essentially healthy features exist not beside but within the neurosis. Each neurotic manifestation is a distorted expression of an individually shaped healthy trend. (p.228).
The distortion must be clearly seen & acknowledged, but the healthy core will be found within the distortion itself. So, when a person learns that the neurosis is an exaggerated version of health, they can feel less shame, & be more hopeful.”
• In other words – trace the neurosis back to it’s original strength & focus on expressing that instead.

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